A couple of weeks ago, I spent a little time in a message I preached on “Why Am I Here?” talking about the importance of being versus doing. Here’s a quick summary of a couple of important points:
- We are human beings, not human doings. (This quote is not original with me. I’ve heard and read it a couple of different places, although most recently on a DVD teaching on Soul Care by Dr. Rob Reiner.)
- In the creation story of Genesis 2:7-10, God created Adam and put him in the garden to enjoy the beauty and to fellowship with God (to BE) before God instructed Adam to DO anything else.
- In Mark 3:13-15, (NIV) Jesus calls the Twelve. Mark tells the story like this: “Jesus went up on a mountainside and called to him those he wanted, and they came to him. He appointed twelve that they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach and to have authority to drive out demons.” The interesting this is that Jesus called them to BE with Him, and then what would follow out of their being with Him would be their being sent out on mission. We often put mission – doing – ahead of being with Jesus. But as Jesus pointed out in John 15, unless we learn to abide/remain in Him – to BE with Him – we can DO nothing of any eternal significance. So again, doing must come before being.
As I’ve thought about this more over the past few weeks, and had opportunities to have conversations with people about it, I’ve realized that while this is good truth, it’s difficult truth. And it’s difficult for a couple of reasons.
First, most of us just don’t know how to “be.” It sounds cool to say we are “human beings not human doings” but the truth is that most of us are so busy and live life at such a hectic pace that there’s no room in our lives to simply “be.” And if there were room, and if there were time, I’m not sure that most of us would know how to “be.”
(A personal example: a few years ago, I was taking a course on Spiritual Formation in Redding, California. On the first morning of the retreat, we were sent out to find a place by ourselves on the campus where we were. We were not allowed to take anything with us – no Bible, no journal, no phone, no notebooks, no nothing at all. We were given a few phrases to meditate on: “God loves me,” “God is with me,” and “God is for me.” That’s all. Then we were left alone for an hour and a half. It was one of the longest hour and a half time periods of my life! I wasn’t used to just “being” with God.)
For many of us, to “be” is just something that has never been defined, that has never been modeled, that we’ve never been taught how to do, that no one ever felt was an important part of helping us grow as disciples, and that doesn’t come naturally.
Second, “doing” is much easier than “being” when we’ve spent our lives “doing.” We live in a culture in which achievement is rewarded. We live in a time when smartphones make to-do lists and organization accessible to all of us. In school, we’re graded on what we achieve – how well we do. (Well, we used to be…it seems to be more about participation trophies and standardized testing prep than actually achieving anything, but that’s another blog post.)
So…how exactly do you “be”? And what should the balance be between being and doing, when we’ve spent most of our lives being taught how to do and being rewarded for doing?
What do you think? For my answers, stay tuned! 🙂
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