Play The Man
In 2006, I read In A Pit With A Lion on A Snowy Day by Mark Batterson and I was hooked on his writing.
Mark Batterson serves as lead pastor of National Community Church in Washington, D.C. He holds a Doctor of Ministry degree from Regent University and is the New York Times bestselling author of 11 books, including Chase the Lion.
Several weeks ago, I was surprised and delighted to discover that he had a new book out called Play The Man. I instantly purchased it (I’m telling you, that Kindle app and One-Click Purchasing is a book lover’s dream and a budgeter’s nightmare!) This is my first book review, so I’m doing on-the-job-training and would appreciate your patience!
Play the Man is a call to something greater for men, and for discipling the next generation of men.
In the first part of the book, Batterson helps us understand what it means to be a man of God by working through what he calls the “seven virtues of manhood:
- Tough Love – Using the examples of Charles Lindbergh, Jesus, and others, Batterson walks us through the idea that playing the man means “loving others when they least expect it and least deserve it” – a difficult task indeed, but one for which a man is created.
- Childlike Wonder – Teddy Roosevelt, who lived an incredible life, is Batterson’s example for this chapter. I love the quoted description from Edmund Morris of Roosevelt’s nightly bedtime ritual – “The president would brush his teeth, jump into bed, put his revolver beside his pillow, and read a minimum of one book per night. Then, there being nothing further to do…Theodore Roosevelt will energetically fall asleep.” Roosevelt was a man’s man who squeezed everything he could out of every moment of life – and we can do the same.
- Will Power – Louie Zamperini, the subject of the book and movie Unbroken, serves as an example here. A former US Olympian, Zamperini survived a World War II plane crash into the Pacific Ocean, 47 days adrift at sea, and then over 2 years of torture and debasement in a Japanese POW camp. Batterson uses the examples of Zamperini and others to show how manhood means learning to say “no” to yourself in the short run so you can say “yes” to more important choices in the future.
- Raw Passion – Batterson describes this as “a lust for life that doesn’t settle for status or status quo. It’s an insatiable energy that motivates you to live each day like it’s the first day and the last day of your life.” He points out that the Holy Spirit enables this passion within us.
- True Grit – Men need danger in their lives. Men need adventure. Men need to put ourselves into positions that will push us past our previous limits and we need to do hard things. Batterson’s story of hiking the Grand Canyon rim to rim gives an exciting taste of what this can look like, and how it can empower you!
- Clear Vision – General and President Andrew Jackson said that he “was born for the storm.” So were all men – we were created to handle adversity and push through, standing on God’s Promises to achieve greatness for the Kingdom of God!
- Moral Courage – We were created to make difficult but right choices. Batterson quotes something God gave him for his own journal that struck me as powerful – “Don’t wash your hands like Pilate. Wash feet like Jesus.” One thing that will make a sorely-needed difference in our world is godly men standing up for what is right, loving as Jesus loved, and doing hard things in the service of our King.
The second part of the book is much shorter – just three chapters. In this section, Batterson outlines how to call out a boy into manhood. He details how he, with the help of family and friends, created a rite of passage for each one of his children. I thought the examples of how he did this with his sons were practical and inspiring. I wish he had spent more time talking about how he and his wife called their daughter in womanhood, but granted, it’s a book about men.
I found Play The Man to be challenging, practical, and thought-provoking. It helped me to examine my life and consider prayerfully areas where I still need to grow and to be transformed. I highly recommend it for all men, and for all parents of boys. Here’s a link to the Kindle version.