It’s All Up To You

In one of John Maxwell book “Developing the Leader Within”, he quoted the following:

We cannot choose how many years we will live, but

We can choose how much life those years will have.

We cannot control the beauty of our face, but

We can control the expression on it.

We cannot control life’s difficult moments, but

We can choose to make life less difficult.

We cannot control the negative atmosphere of the world, but

We can control the atmosphere of our minds.

Too often, we try to choose and control things we cannot.

Too seldom, we choose to control what we can…our attitude.

How true that is, and how powerful once we understand it.

There are two important truths here:

    • There is not much that I cannot control in life, but
    • I CAN control my own attitude.

I know people – and I’m sure you do – who spend their entire lives trying to control.  Trying to control their spouses and children and grandchildren, trying to control other peoples’ perceptions of them, trying to control other peoples’ actions, trying to control their lives, trying to control what the future will look like.

And it’s all futile. 

The discouraging truth is that we begin life with no control, we gain some control over our lives as we become adults and make our own decisions, but ultimately, aging is a process of increasingly losing control of different aspects of our lives.  Depressing, isn’t it?  And yet, it’s the human condition.  It happens to all of us, and no matter who we are, how influential or powerless we are, how wealthy or poor we are, how spiritual or unspiritual we are, how well we plan or how poorly we plan, it will happen to each one of us.

But the good news is that while I cannot control what happens to me, I can control what happens in me.  No one can choose my attitude but me; no one can control my response to life’s situations but me.

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Viktor Frankl was a Doctor of Neurology and Psychology.  In 1942, he and his wife were forced by the Nazis to abort their first baby.  In 1944, they are sent to Auschwitz, where he is separated from his wife, mother, and brother.  After Auschwitz was liberated by U.S. Troops, he learned that his wife was transported to Bergen-Belsen, where she died at the age of 24; and that his mother and brother were murdered at Auschwitz.  Despite all of these experiences, Frankl went on to write the book “Man’s Search for Meaning” – the book in which he wrote these powerful words:

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”

Wow.  Consider the weight of those words after all that he himself experienced.  No one can take from you the freedom to choose your attitude.

None of us knows what today will hold, what we will face in the coming days or hours.

None of us can control most of what may happen to us.

But every one of us can control our own attitude.  Every one of us can choose how we will face this day, and all that it brings to us.

What attitude will you choose today?


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Your Attitude Can Make the Difference!

One of my favorite passages of Scripture about attitude is located at the beginning of the book of Joshua.  Moses has just died; Joshua has taken over leadership of the nation of Israel – a nation of wandering nomads, who have spent 40 years without a homeland because of their lack of faith and disobedience.  God begins to speak words of encouragement to Joshua, preparing him for the challenge that lies ahead as they face their first hurdles – crossing the Jordan river, and then conquering the city of Jericho, the stronghold at the entrance to the Promised Land.

God encourages Joshua to be strong, to be courageous, to be obedient, to ground himself in the Book of the Law that God had given to Israel through Moses.  And then God gave this command and promise to Joshua:  ”This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”  (Joshua 1:9, NLT)

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Isn’t it interesting that a part of what God was instructing Joshua to do was to protect his heart – to be careful of his attitudes?  Why was that?

I think it’s because Israel originally refused to enter the Promised Land 40 years before this because they let attitudes of fear and discouragement plague their minds.  And so, when faced with the opportunity to trust God’s provision and protection and enter the land, they instead let fear turn them to discouragement.  Without firing a single arrow or slingshot, they gave up – because their own attitudes defeated them.

And so, when we fast-forward 40 years, we find God telling Joshua to pay special attention to his attitude – to be brave and courageous, to be encouraged, to not give in to the temptation to fear or to be overwhelmed by the task before them.

Now, here’s the important thing to understand about attitude.  Attitude didn’t forge any physical weapons for Israel; it didn’t make their warriors any stronger; it didn’t give them greater speed or endurance; and it didn’t give Joshua an advantage in tactics.  It didn’t relieve them of the responsibility to walk into the land and face their enemies.

What attitude DID do for Joshua and for Israel was to give them the will and the ability to go on in the face of overwhelming odds.  Attitude gave them the faith to trust God when circumstances seemed to be against them.

To use an over-worn cliché, attitude was the wind beneath their wings.

And attitude can be the same thing, do the same things, for you and for me today.

What kind of attitude will empower you to get through whatever life throws at you today?  This attitude:  Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

I don’t know what this day will hold, for you or for me.  I don’t know the challenges that we will face, or the blessings that may come our way.

But I know this – no matter what, God is good.  And because of that, you and I can be strong and courageous.  We can face our day with attitudes of faith, and not fear.  We can choose to be encouraged.  Because God will be with us, wherever we are. 

What attitude will you choose as you face today?


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The Power of Positive Thinking

In the fall of 1984, I began working at Chick-fil-A in Westmoreland Mall, Greensburg, PA for a man named Bill Forster.

Bill and his wonderful wife Teri had a number of significant positive impacts on my life.  For example, Bill challenged me to apply to a new scholarship program that Chick-fil-A had established at Berry College in Rome, Georgia.  Bill and Teri supported me in that whole process, encouraged me to go for it, and didn’t complain when it meant I left the store to move to Georgia.  That set up a whole chain of events in my life, including a change in career direction, significant spiritual growth, amazing opportunities while in college, and even meeting Jewel.  I can honestly say that without Bill and Teri, I would never have met Jewel and married her, and we would never have had Bethany.

That’s a pretty significant impact for a couple to have on someone’s life!  And I know a number of other people who worked with Bill and Teri whose lives were changed positively because of their influence.

But I want to focus in on one significant area of impact that they had on me in today’s blog:  my attitude.

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I grew up in Christian home with the world’s greatest Dad and Mom and younger brother.  I was privileged to be taught God’s Word from an early age, to memorize Scripture, to make wise choices (which I didn’t always do!), and to live my life in such a way that I would honor the Lord Jesus.  I was blessed with a lot of truth, and that foundation still stands strong today.

One area that I had never really considered, though, was my attitude.  I’m not sure why; I guess I just never put it together.  But Bill and Teri helped put it together for me.  They modeled it for me every time I saw them, or worked side-by-side with them.  It didn’t matter what they were going through, what the store was going through, or what life brought along – Bill and Teri always, and I mean always, had a positive attitude about life, about their ability to face life with God’s help, and about God’s blessings on their lives.

One night at work, after we had a brief discussion about some of my plans for the future, Bill gave me a copy of a cassette tape (that was a LONG time ago!) by Zig Ziglar on setting and reaching life goals.  That tape was a game-changer for me.  It opened my eyes to a new way of thinking and planning, to new possibilities in my journey with Jesus, and it helped me understand that I had made some assumptions about following Jesus that weren’t true.  I had somehow in my own mind arrived at a place of thinking that setting goals and wanting to be successful was counter to the Kingdom of God.  Zig and Bill and Teri helped me understand that God wants us to be fruitful, and that while fruit looks different in different professions and in different peoples’ lives, there was nothing selfish in wanting to excel wherever I was.  In fact, bettering myself would equip me to help others do the same at a higher level.  For teaching me that and for opening doors in my life and in my thinking, I will be forever grateful to Bill and Teri.

I also learned (again, I don’t know how I missed this, but I did) that I am responsible for my own attitude.  No one else can choose my attitude for me; and I can choose to have a positive, expectant, faith-filled attitude regardless of my circumstances or I can choose to let life and other people dictate my attitude.  It’s my choice.  My mind; I control what I feed it, and what I focus my thoughts on.  Up until that point, I had spent a significant part of my teen years with the attitude that “if I don’t expect much, then I won’t be disappointed.”  As a result, I had a horrible attitude about a lot of things.

I’ve learned since then that a positive attitude is a huge advantage in life.  How I think doesn’t change my circumstances, but it changes my perspective on those circumstances, it changes how I approach those circumstances, it changes how I approach God in the midst of my circumstances, and it changes how I portray Jesus to others in my circumstances!

The Bible actually has a lot to say about how we think and how our thoughts affect our lives, as well as the lives of those we encounter.  Over the next few weeks, I’m planning to dedicate several blogs to the power of positive thinking.  Don’t let the terminology close your mind to what the possibilities that God’s Word can open up to you!

We’ll dive in on Wednesday’s blog.  In the meantime, I’d like to leave you with 3 questions to consider.  Feel free to comment below, if you’d like to dialogue:

  • Who has had the greatest impact on your attitude in life?
  • How would describe your overall attitude about life – positive?  Negative?  Neutral?
  • How would the person who knows you best describe your attitude about life?  (Sometimes others can see things in us and about us that we become blind to over time.)

I’m looking forward to sharing with you some of the things I’ve learned, and am learning.  In the meantime, remember that you and I can “do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13, NKJV)!


If you’re interested in learning more about following Jesus, check out my new devotional book, Forty Days of Walking With Jesus:  A Devotional Guide, now available on the Kindle Store.  The paperback version is NOW AVAILABLE!  For ordering information, contact me at don@donwhunter.com